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ranting & raving about stuff that gets me on my high horse or rips my nightie with more than a question or two thrown in because I don't understand the world around me

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I don't think that I'm particularly organised but am astounded at just how many people don't utilise the 11th hour or last minute to prepare. Rather they fumble through things deflecting much onto others who haven't been given the opportunity to prepare themselves.

A little organisation goes a long way towards success and you can do it all from the device in your pocket that usually distracts you from focusing on what is important.

We can only improve of we get a glimpse of what better looks like and understand what steps we can take towards that.

Much of life is intuitive and easy to figure out. However, we all benefit from having the obvious pointed out to us from time to time so we are reminded how things work!

If you think that attending church will get you into heaven you're 100% wrong. If you think not attending church excludes you from heaven you're 100% wrong. Sometimes it is good to be wrong!

Self awareness and compassion are life skills that you should constantly refine.

Three things i don't like about hotels; The lights are terrible if you actually want anything other than dim, mood lighting. They make the beds incredibly tight so that you have to yank hard to get the sheets out so you can sleep (oh and why do many pillows on the bed?)! Finally, for today, I really don't like it when they make up your room and rearrange all your toiletries!

I'm the kind of person who likes things to start on time. I don't like thinking something will start at 7, arriving on time, then having to wait 15, 20 minutes for others before getting underway! This is a challenge when I'm traveling and in a culture that doesn't operate this way. I struggle because I'm impatient and typically have other things that I want to get done!!

I like to be organised, to know what to expect, and what is going to happen. Of course I also like to be flexible, allow things to flow, and not be locked into a rigid schedule. Conflicted? I am also generally comfortable with ambiguity provided there is a general direction and structure.

Recently a work situation has probably had someone thinking that I'm an organisation freak needing to know everything beforehand. Later this week I will undoubtedly switch to the flexible view on each day with the timetable appearing to be optional.

I am a complex anomalous just like the rest of humanity!

Leadership often feels like constantly dragging this forward. You can see where you need to be and people around you understand but can't make their own way there. So you spend your time helping them learn what they need to know to move. Great leaders manage this in a way that leaves the people they've been dragging forward with the skills and confidence to do this by themselves next time.

Parenthood is a twenty year experiment! Billions of people have done it before is but we all embark on it with our own ideas. Personally I think the key is consistenty and representativeness. But I guess I will find out how will we've done in 2030. What I hope is that my 3 sons are generous, men of integrity, gracious and Godly so they succeed in a way that transcends their lives. I hope that my sons impact their world in a way that is exponentially greater than I have.